NOMC is made up of men, that is the only requirement. Over the years, we have had about a hundred men associated with us. Each year, some move away, pass on, etc., and some new men join. Like a tribe, a certain continuity is maintained by the group as the individuals change.

What to expect

The gatherings have evolved into a loosely defined form. We begin with announcements, followed by drumming and introductions. Next all present are invited to share poetry, and mythopoetic stories or readings. Then time is offered for speaking from the heart. Some topic of interest is then presented, usually following the myphopoetic form. Experiential exercise, small and large group experiences, discussion, movement, use of creative medium, and/or any combination of these can be expected. We then divide into several closed groups with one group remaining open as host to men who are not in one of the closed groups. (As NOMC has grown, closed groups, known as clans, have formed to facilitate trust and intimacy among members).

Drumming

We begin our gatherings by drumming as a way to create "ritual space", create group cohesion, and/or have fun. Most of us have found drumming stimulating and energizing.

Mythopoetic

This term refers to the use of story telling, poetry and mythology to explore topics of interest and promote masculine awareness and healing. Robert Bly, Michael Meade and James Hillman are among the men considered the founders of "Mythopoetic Men's Movement".